Is there any relation between affection and anger?

Is there any affection between affection and anger?

I guess most of you would agree that you get angry much more and faster who you care about. If you have affection towards someone, you get mad at them even on the smallest thing.

What is that what triggers this anger? Why can the affection not stop this anger? Or is it the affection which acts like a catalyst. Is it the over care you give to someone which doesn't let you allow them to do anything which sounds not good to you. Is that the reason for the anger?

When you get mad at someone unknown or not very close, say at work or something like that, you can control it. Is it because you are so cautious about how that person would think? How the world around you will think? Or maybe, there can be bad results of that.

Why the same doesn't apply when you don't like something about the people who you care about, why can you not control your reactions or in the first place your emotions? Why do you not care how the person would feel? Why do you not care how you would feel when you think backwards what happened?

Or is it that even though you get less angry with person who you care about, but you express it more due to the fact is that you feel comfortable expressing it. That pictures the scenario to look like you get more angry on persons you care than the persons you don't care.

I still want to understand what is the relation between affection and anger.

Any comments?

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